Kristin Cavallari Opens Up About Post-Divorce Life and Co-Parenting Journey

Former reality TV star Kristin Cavallari has recently shared insights into her feelings about her ex-husband Jay Cutler‘s new relationship, revealing her thoughts on his fiancée, Samantha Robertson. Kristin reflected on her past perceptions, noting that she was aware of how outdated her view of Samantha was, which surprisingly helped her understand the couple’s evolving dynamic.

During the debut episode of In Reality Cavallari: The Podcast Tour on June 4, Kristin, 38, discussed her perspective with Kim Zolciak. The conversation touched on their respective divorce experiences and how they navigated the emotional landscape of separation while maintaining a sense of peace.

Divorce Journeys and New Beginnings

Kristin’s divorce from Jay, 42, concluded in 2022 after over two years of separation. She described the process as challenging but ultimately cathartic. Meanwhile, Kim Zolciak, 47, shared that her split from Kroy Biermann in 2023 is nearing the two-year mark, with both parties approaching the final stages of their divorce proceedings.

The discussion was prompted by Kim’s curiosity about Kristin’s feelings regarding Jay’s new partner, which led Kristin to openly acknowledge her initial reactions and how her perspective has shifted over time.

“That’s the part I wonder about – how I’ll feel when I see Jay with someone new around our children,” Kim admitted, highlighting the common concerns many parents face when their ex-partners move on.

Parenting and Moving Forward

Kristin and Jay share three children: Camden, 12, Jaxon, 11, and Saylor, 9. After their separation, Jay publicly introduced Samantha in September 2023, and they became engaged a year later. Kristin emphasized that her focus remains on her children’s well-being and her personal growth.

Reflecting on her own experience, Kristin expressed that navigating a public divorce can be complex but also offers opportunities for honest dialogue. “There’s often a misconception that staying together is always best for the kids, but I believe that sometimes, divorce is the healthiest choice,” she explained. “It’s important to allow space for healing and clarity.”

Challenges and Triumphs in Co-Parenting

Kristin has been candid about the difficulties of co-parenting, describing her journey as unpredictable and sometimes tumultuous. In a December 2024 interview on Bunnie XO’s “Dreary Blonde” podcast, she shared that maintaining consistency has been one of the toughest aspects of her post-divorce life.

Despite these challenges, Kristin feels that she and Jay have finally reached a more stable and cooperative phase in their co-parenting relationship. Jay recently told Us Weekly that they have established a schedule that works well for everyone involved, allowing them to focus on their children’s needs.

“Our kids are adjusting, and we’re doing our best to make it work,” Jay shared in an exclusive interview on June 2. “Having a clear routine has made a significant difference for us.”

Kristin’s journey illustrates that even in the face of public scrutiny and personal upheaval, it’s possible to find harmony and prioritize the happiness of children. Her story continues to resonate with many who are navigating similar paths.

For more updates and candid conversations, tune into In Reality Cavallari: The Podcast Tour, airing Wednesdays at 10 p.m. ET on E!.